Discover how Ash + Oak, San Francisco’s top luxury wedding florist, collaborates with couples and planners to create breathtaking, customized floral designs.
Read MoreLuxury Wedding Floral Design in San Francisco: Behind the Scenes with Ash + Oak
Discover how Ash + Oak, San Francisco’s top luxury wedding florist, collaborates with couples and planners to create breathtaking, customized floral designs.
Read MoreNamed one of The Wed’s Best Wedding Florists in the Nation
Planning a wedding in California, Mexico, or anywhere globally? Your floral designer should do more than arrange flowers—they should tell a story. At Ash + Oak, we create artful, editorial floral experiences for modern couples who crave design-forward details and intentional moments.
Recently named one of The Wed’s Top 26 Wedding Florists in the U.S., Ash + Oak has become the go-to floral design house for couples and planners seeking a luxury wedding aesthetic that feels elevated, effortless, and unforgettable.
With a background in fashion and visual storytelling, our work pulls inspiration from architecture, art, and nature—not just other weddings. Every arrangement is intentionally styled to feel like part of your overall aesthetic, not just decor.
From Napa to Mexico City and destination events worldwide, we’ve worked alongside top-tier wedding planners such as Downey Street and Mandy Marie Events and creative teams such as Tait and Another A Story to bring visionary celebrations to life. Whether it’s a multi-day celebration at The Montage or a wedding at Nobu Cabo, we design with your entire guest experience in mind.
Think: sculptural installations, rare seasonal blooms, nuanced color palettes, and floral storytelling that complements the energy of your day. We’re especially known for editorial ceremony designs, modern bridal bouquets, and unexpected tablescapes that feel more like art than tradition.
We offer floral design for luxury weddings in California, Mexico, and destination events worldwide, including:
Napa Valley weddings
San Francisco Bay Area weddings
Cabo and Mexico City destination weddings
Palm Springs & Miami luxury corporate events
Editorial elopements and fashion-forward micro weddings
If you’re searching for a modern wedding florist in California or a luxury floral designer for your destination wedding, our studio is open to travel.
Ash + Oak Couples Typically Invest Between $25K–$100K+ in Floral Design
$25,000–$40,000: Lush ceremony + reception, high-end personal florals, and custom design details
$50,000–$100,000+: Multi-installation weddings, immersive design moments, and layered floral storytelling
Custom quotes are available for elopements or multi-day weddings
We only take a limited number of weddings each season to ensure our full creative energy is dedicated to every couple.
Get Started with Ash + Oak
If you’re a couple looking for:
A luxury wedding florist in California or Mexico
A creative team that values style and substance
A design-forward experience grounded in artistry, sustainability, and intention
We’d love to meet you, head over to our contact page to get started.
In February, we packed our bags and hopped on a flight to New York City for a special occasion—a baby shower for our dear client. The city's energy always excites us, but this trip was for work.
The venue was a beautiful Italian restaurant with white amrbles and stunning melted candles all around. We decorated it with delicate sweet peas, lush hydrangeas, and soft carnations, filling the room with a fresh, floral fragrance that set the perfect mood for celebration. The combination of pastel pinks, mauve, pistachio and whites created a warm and inviting space that felt both elegant and cozy. We used silver dessert dishes as the vessel for an Italian sorbet touch mets cutesy baby.
As the afternoon unfolded, we couldn't help but feel grateful to be part of such a special moment. The trip reminded us how important it is to celebrate life's milestones and cherish our bonds with our clients. From the time they plan their weddings to their sweetest moments as they build and grow their families.
Balancing Boldness and Elegance
Blue flowers are a rare and captivating choice in floral design. While their unique hue can bring unexpected beauty to arrangements, working with blue can present challenges. The limited variety of blue blooms and their striking color can easily tip into territory that feels overly themed—think sports team mascot or baby shower vibes. However, when approached with intention, blue florals can achieve a refined, sophisticated, or even avant-garde aesthetic.
Unlike softer hues like blush or cream, blue flowers demand careful consideration. Their bold presence can overpower a design if not balanced correctly. Additionally, the limited range of naturally blue blooms—like delphiniums, hydrangeas, and tweedia—requires strategic pairing to achieve cohesion without feeling forced.
For a refined and sophisticated design, we recommend working within a monochromatic palette. Choosing blooms in similar shades—from powder blue to deep navy—creates a seamless flow that feels elevated and modern. Blending textural elements is key in this approach. Pair delicate tweedia with full-bodied hydrangeas and wispy delphiniums to build layers of depth without overwhelming the eye.
For added sophistication, anchor your blue florals with muted neutrals such as soft grey, taupe, or crisp white. This allows the blue to shine without feeling harsh or disconnected.
For those seeking something more dynamic, a high-contrast palette featuring multiple shades of blue can feel striking and fresh. The key to avoiding a "themed" look is to incorporate at least three different tones—such as icy blue, cobalt, and midnight. This range adds complexity and ensures the blue feels intentional rather than accidental.
Pairing blue blooms with unexpected elements can further elevate the design. Earthy textures like dried foliage or sculptural branches offer balance, while pops of metallic accents or bold-colored blooms (like deep burgundy or golden mustard) can create a captivating, almost artistic result.
When curating a blue floral palette, these flowers provide both color and versatility:
Delphinium: Tall, elegant stems that give structure and drama.
Muscari: Delicate and perfect for a boutonnirere
Tweedia: Delicate and airy, ideal for a softer blue accent. Classic for garden style
Eryngium (Sea Holly): Adds a spiky texture for modern, edgy designs.
California Lilac: Textured and has modern foliage
Blue flowers, though challenging, offer endless potential for striking and memorable designs. By embracing either a sleek monochromatic palette or a bold multi-tonal contrast, you can craft floral arrangements that feel artful, sophisticated, and undeniably fresh. With thoughtful execution, blue flowers move far beyond tradition, delivering a statement that is both modern and unforgettable.
When designing florals for a wedding, the venue itself can be one of the most powerful sources of inspiration. The architecture, ambiance, and character of the space should guide the aesthetic decisions, ensuring the flowers feel cohesive and intentional rather than forced. For a recent wedding in Napa Valley, we took exactly that approach.
While Napa is known for its sprawling vineyards and rustic charm, this particular venue was a modern space with sleek lines, polished finishes, and minimalist design. Rather than leaning into traditional vineyard aesthetics, we embraced the venue’s contemporary feel by curating a collection of modern white florals with layered textures to create a fresh yet refined look.
To complement the venue's architectural elegance, we opted for a sleek palette of all-white blooms. This monochromatic approach allowed texture and structure to take center stage. Sculptural grasses, delicate ranunculus, and crisp nerines were paired with misty and baby’s breath. By blending these elements, we created arrangements that felt luxurious yet contemporary—a perfect reflection of the venue's modern aesthetic.
To mirror the clean lines of the venue, we emphasized intentional design with sculptural arrangements. Tall, structured stems, curved dried grasses, and asymmetrical designs added movement while leaving space to breathe, evoking a sense of modern elegance. Architectural vessels in sleek ceramic and black finishes grounded the arrangements with an understated yet impactful presence.
The floral design didn’t just complement the venue—it enhanced the entire guest experience. By aligning the florals with the space's sleek design, the arrangements created a cohesive ambiance that felt intentional and luxurious. The result was an atmosphere that felt elevated yet inviting, effortlessly blending contemporary elegance with timeless romance.
When designing florals for a wedding, embracing the venue's unique characteristics is key. By allowing the space to guide the design direction, you create an experience that feels curated, thoughtful, and harmonious. In this case, our decision to lean into the venue's modern aesthetic with sculptural white florals resulted in a design that was both bold and beautiful—proof that inspiration is often right in front of you.
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White flowers have long been the quiet backdrop of floral design—a safe, traditional choice often overlooked in favor of bolder, more colorful blooms. But dismissing white flowers as dull or predictable is a mistake. When styled thoughtfully, white florals can evoke a striking elegance that is both timeless and artful. They have the power to transform a space into something ethereal, luxurious, and undeniably chic.
The secret to elevating white flowers lies in texture. Combining blooms with different shapes, petal formations, and finishes creates a rich visual narrative. Think nerine beside velvety garden roses or crisp calla lilies paired with cloud-like hydrangeas. Tulips, with their architectural silhouette, lend a sculptural quality to arrangements, while clusters of celmatis can evoke a dreamy, cloud-like aesthetic.
Monochromatic palettes thrive when designers embrace dynamic structure. Modern ikebana-inspired arrangements allow white blooms to become sculptural elements, emphasizing negative space for an artful, editorial look. Long-stemmed tulips bent in unexpected arcs or towering delphiniums paired with cascading amaranthus add depth and movement.
White florals become even more captivating when paired with opulent accents. Black or charcoal tableware can provide a dramatic contrast, making white arrangements feel even more elevated. Modern ceramic will provide a clean and fresh feel.
The magic of white flowers often lies in their effortless charm. Leaning into organic shapes, asymmetrical designs, and delicate buds creates an air of intentional imperfection that feels both romantic and modern.
When curating a white floral palette, these blooms are sure to make an impact:
Anthuriums: Sleek, sculptural, and modern
Ranunculus: Layered petals for a soft yet architectural touch
Calla Lilies: Bold yet sophisticated with their dramatic blooms
Sweet Peas: Delicate and airy for an ethereal vibe
Nerine: Modern and sleek for a minimalist feel
White flowers are anything but boring—they are powerful in their purity, captivating in their simplicity, and undeniably luxurious when styled with intention. By embracing texture, movement, and carefully curated details, white florals can elevate any event or interior into a space that feels artistic, editorial, and effortlessly chic.
This year, it’s all about weaving heartfelt, custom touches into your big day—and we have the perfect way to do just that: custom bridal bouquet ribbons.
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